We commend you for respecting your parents' wishes to protect their future. To start; certain medical and financial documents must be formalized. 

1. A Durable Power of Attorney of Health & Finances.

2. Advance Directives to instruct doctors and hospitals of your parents' wishes. A legal will to distribute assets.

We recommend a specifically trained Elder Care or Estate Planning Attorney & to do so BEFORE a crisis! If not, what is difficult now, becomes a nightmare later.

Your Friends,

Traci & Lee